The internet tells me I have more than a 1000 friends in the online ecosystem.
There’s a good chance that you share a similar story.
But how does one get to know who their real friends are? Not just among the friends in the online space, but also in their physical world?
I feel there is way to find the answer.
And the answer is in the questions they ask you.
Even if we have been friends with someone for a while, we can spend years not going beyond the same old questions-
‘How are you?’
You know the list !
But amid the cacophony of the same old peripheral questions, there will be a friend who’s questions will pierce straight through your heart.
He’ll ask questions that compel you to come up with answers you already have, to questions you don’t.
‘What is your dream?’
‘What do you fear?’
‘Are you happy?’
‘Can I help?’
These are simple questions,
and they must be attended to.
These questions can only emanate from the heart of a true friend.
Who is a true friend you’d ask.
In my opinion, a true friend is someone to whom your growth matters just as much as their own.
You can be friends with hundreds of people, but if you want to be a true friend to a chosen few, you must ask these questions to them.
And time and again, in the interest of fostering meaningful growth,
To form a deeper personal bond,
One must ask these questions,
As a good friend,
May I ask,
‘What’s your dream?’
‘And what’s holding you back?’
And, coming back to the question,
Who’s a true friend?
The answer is in the questions they ask you.
I hope you find a friend in me,
A friend in you.