Thriving Mindfully

Category: The Bicycle Diaries (Page 4 of 4)

How many friends do I have?

‘So, do you know anyone in Thailand ?’ asked one of my friends over dinner.

‘Hmmm, do I need to know someone in Thailand?’

‘Yes! It is a country you have never been to. It helps to have a connection that will be of help just in case.’

‘Well, I don’t know anyone.’ I smiled apprehensively.

Yes, I did not know a single person in Thailand before coming here.

But every single day since I’ve been here, I meet a new friend.
Now that I think of it, I would tell my friend,
Yes, I have many friends in Thailand.
I don’t know them all yet!

They keep coming and sharing their love,
One day at a time.

Today I met many little monks at a Buddhist monastery. I don’t know names of all of them. But we smile when we pass by. They kindly shared their living space with me for the night and brought me dinner. The warm energy of comradeship surrounds the whole space.

After this brief jaunt of a few weeks around Thailand, my perception of a friend has changed.

Earlier if I were asked to count my friends, I’d make an effort.

But now, if a little kid asks,
‘How many friends do you have?’

I would only be able to say,
‘I cannot count them out. Because I am yet to meet all of them!’

To a new day,
With the promise of meeting another friend !

Enabling my dream

Today, after a long 5 hour ride, I stopped at a town called Saraburi. It has been hard to find vegetarian food in Thailand so far. I looked around for half an hour for vegetarian food but there was nothing available. In the end I stopped at a small family run snack joint and asked for rice and eggs.
On realizing that I was on a long Bicycle trip, they asked me if I needed ice, or wanted to use the washroom. As I was leaving they gave me two ripe oranges to enjoy on the way. We waved goodbye to each other like kids as we parted ways.

Later in the day I stopped to eat at another stall. Since I was the only one there at lunch time, I sensed that they needed more business. I was surprised when they offered me free lunch!
I politely declined only to be given water and cucumbers to eat on the way.
I was moved by the empathy of people who only had so much to spare.

At night, I stopped at a Buddhist monastery. The monks were kind enough to let me sleep for the night. I set up my tent and prepared myself for bed.
Soon, two little monks brought me soya milk, a bottle of water, a muffin and mosquito repellent.
Adorably they wrote something in Thai in google translate.
The translation read
‘ We got it from the mess for you’

Curled up in my tent, I can only feel overwhelmed by gratitude.
How these little elements in my life, the small interactions, are only pushing me to fulfill my goal,
Of stumbling on kindness,
Of pursuing the hope of a compassionate world.

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